We all have lost someone we loved, a friend, a sibling or a lover. Time flows by and you don’t realize how you two have just drifted away, all those promises of staying together fades.
Who is to blame really? Did you not give enough time to the relationship? Did he/she didn’t care enough to ‘make it work’, or any other lame reason like such which comforts our heart for the time being until it the truth shadows over you making you realize that you have lost it. And no blame is good enough to recover the loss.
Out of my experience I feel that some relationships are not ‘forever’ but for a certain amount of time where two people share a special relationship, laughing, crying, and growing together and then move on.
Often when these relationships are lost, it suddenly becomes a ‘waste of time’ or ‘a mistake’ not because it was all that, but the trauma of not getting what you have planned and expected is too strong to look over the initial feeling of hurting.
No past relationship is a mistake if you can get out something out of it – strength of letting go, wisdom of making better choices or even some very cool song you got introduced to while In that relationship.
This hurting never stops because we keep escaping pain, but pain is the first sign of healing.
So look back to your past relationship no matter how poisoned they seem and find out that few things that you learned from it, it could be something that you learned while you were in that relationship or something that you learnt while getting out of it.
And then let go……
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